Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh,
IN THE NAME OF ALLAH, THE MOST BENEFICENT, THE MOST MERCIFUL
There is something in the culture of some Muslim countries where if any Muslim dies then after 40 days, a day of supplication and remembrance of that person is observed.
What happens in some Muslim countries where the friends and relatives of the deceased gather after 40 days to read Qur’an, make duaa for him and remember him is undoubtedly bidah (reprehensible innovation) for which no authority has been revealed by Allah.
It is not permissible to take part in or attend such gatherings. We have to speak out against such practices. The Muslim should pray for his brother at all times, not only for three days after his death, or forty days or one year later, etc.
It should be known that this is a custom of the Kuffaar and it is not permissible for us to imitate them. May Allah help us to follow the Sunnah, and may He bless our Prophet Muhammad(pbuh).
ALLAH KNOWS BEST.